I haven’t dealt with crypto in years, so I’m not really the best source for some of those specifics.
As I understand it, the Monero protocol doesn’t maintain history between transactions, so it’s very much like electronic cash. if I were to go the exchange route, I would convert to XMR, send it to another exchange, then back to BTC. it doesn’t really matter where you buy it if you go that route. those transactions do have a cost however.
as I’ve said it’s been years and the crypto world is loaded with scams so I have no idea which if any of those are legit, sorry.
despite what “free speech” absolutists would like to believe, the vast majority of the world does not wish to tolerate hate, racism, and bigotry. refusing to accept these is not suppression, it’s maintaining healthy and welcoming communities.
it’s no different than swimming pools having a basic “no shitting in the pool” policy. if you want to shit in the pool, you are going to have to go swim with others that are ok with swimming in shitty water.
with that said, I hear exploding-heads may be what you’re looking for